
Today you woke up and you started all over again. No matter what happened yesterday. Or didn’t happen yesterday. Or who was not nice to you, or what didn’t get done, or how behind you were. Who hurt you or how awesome you were. It isn’t yesterday. It won’t ever be yesterday again. Yesterday may [...]

I get you. I know more about you than you think. I know about some of your relationships. I know about your stories. Your excuses. Your “never agains” Your “what ifs” and your “maybe just one more times.” I know what it is like to wonder “Is it me?” or “Why do I keep making [...]

A guest post by Erica Kaplan, aka my sister. A few days ago my 5-year-old daughter Lily asked me why we still had our “Happy Halloween” banner hung in the corner of our kitchen. She’s right to ask, it’s strange that we still have it up from last October’s pre-Halloween get together. Every year [...]

This is for those of you who think you are not brave. You know what? You are the bravest there is. Yes, YOU. You who are… …doing it all yourself …terrified whether you will pay all the bills this month …ready to walk away from “so so” to find your “fucking awesome” …questioning whether you [...]

Today, what if, when someone asked “How are you,?” you actually gave a real answer? What if, instead of chirping a happy answer like “Great!” or “Awesome, how about you?” you were a little more honest than that? “I’m having trouble paying my bills.” “My kids are on my last nerve.” “My relationship is feeling [...]

The answer is always simpler than you thought it would be. That in and of itself may seem a bit complicated, as our maneuvering, our questioning, our ruminating, our never-ending mental ping pong always tells us it must be really, really complicated. But it isn’t. It is simple. And, yet, our egos and their henchmen [...]

Per Wikipedia, safety is the state of being “safe,” the condition of being protected against physical, social, spiritual, financial, political, emotional, occupational, psychological, educational or other types or consequences of failure, damage, error, accidents, harm or any other event which could be considered non-desirable. Those are a lot of potentially non-safe things. No wonder people [...]

My name is Allison and I am addicted to buying domain names. I am in recovery. I’m making progress. I’m getting better. But like any addiction, it is a lifelong thing. At my highest point, I had around 100-110 domain names. For those of you who are hardcore, this is nothing. For the rest of [...]

ICK… …how it feels when they tell you “you can’t” or “you shouldn’t.” …how you feel when you know the person you least want to see is right in front of you. …another word for shame. …another word for disrespect. …another word for the thing you feel when you are shot down yet again. ……when [...]

I remember the feeling of walking on eggshells. I remember wondering what I did wrong or when I would next do something wrong. I remember being scared that this would be my life forever. I remember feeling constantly on edge. I remember being disrespected. I remember being yelled at. Sneered at. Verbally attacked. I remember [...]